Give you child the confidence to try something new
Does your child like to play alone? Or do they enjoy engaging with others?
The answer has as much to do with age as with personality type. As children mature they progress through stages of play. What are these stages of play?
Unoccupied play – This first stage is not really play at all. The child simply stands, observing.
Solitary play – Common in toddlers. You'll often see them playing alone, uninterested in what others are doing.
Onlooker play - Your child watches others play, without joining in. They may discuss the play but they don't take part.
Parallel play - This is play alongside others, enjoying the same activity, but without interacting. Think of two children both building with blocks but not communicating.
Associative play – Children start to talk to each other about their play. They share their excitement, but there is no formal structure.
Cooperative play – At this, the highest stage, children organize their play. Games have rules and each child has a role.
It's clear that there's a progression from the first stage to the last. Children don't seem to progress through the stages in a linear way. They can be onlookers one day and participants the next. Much of this has to do with the familiarity of their playmates.
Can you see how Children play alone and make their own discoveries and the higher levels Children learn by playing together and from each other.
What kinds of play does your child usually engage in? Do they play at a higher stage when in familiar company? You can't force your child to play at a 'higher' level than they are ready for, but by sitting alongside them, you can give them the confidence to try something new.